Sense of Direction, Human beings function like a bicycle. It can maintain its poise and equilibrium as long as it is heading forwards. With no place to go, it is difficult to maintain balance and the bike will be "shaky" in its balance. It very differs when you have no personal goals, you will go around in circles and find life as aimless and purposeless. The people who say that life is not worthwhile are really saying that they have no worthwhile goals.
Understanding, understanding depends on good communication. Communication is vital for any guidance system or computer to function well. Your Success Mechanism will not function appropriately if the information is faulty or misunderstood.
Courage, Having a goal and understanding of the situation are not enough. You must have the courage to pursue the goal. Often the difference between a successful person and an average person is that the successful person is willing to bet on himself and take a calculated risk.
Charity, it is a psychological fact that our feelings about other people is a reflection on how we feel about ourselves. Thus, when a person is charitable towards others, he will be charitable towards himself.
Esteem, Having a low self-esteem is a form of self-sabotage.
Self Confidence, confidence is built upon an experience of success. When we first begin any undertaking, we are likly to have little confidence in our ability because we have not learned from experience that we can succeed. All your successes will breed other successes. The more we practice something, the more we will have sucess at it. This is because the "computer" in the brain will remember the sucessful attempts and discard the failures.
Self Acceptance, changing your self-image does not mean changing yourself or improving yourself. What it means is changing your mental conception and realization of that self. Having a better self-image does not create any new abilities, talents, and powers -- a better self-image releases and utilizes them.
The human body has its own "danger signals" which doctors refer to as symptoms or syndrome. Failure-type personalities also have recognizable symptoms. Once it is recognized, the failures are utilized as negative feedback to guide you to your correct course.
Maxwell Maltz, M.D. Fics - Psycho Cybernetics Mutakhir (The New Psycho Cybernetics)
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